A Sikh Lady’s Response to Mockery

by duncanr

An anonymous contributor to the website Reddit snapped this pic of a Sikh lady waiting in line and posted it to the site for a bit of a laugh. As he expected, lots of folk poked fun at the lady’s appearance, particularly her facial hair

Balpreet Kaur

Somehow, the lady learned about the post and – having read the comments on her picture – sent in the following note . . .

Hey, guys. This is Balpreet Kaur, the girl from the picture. … I’m not embarrased or even humiliated by the attention [negative and positve] that this picture is getting because, it’s who I am.

Yes, I’m a baptized Sikh woman with facial hair. Yes, I realize that my gender is often confused and I look different than most women.

However, baptized Sikhs believe in the sacredness of this body – it is a gift that has been given to us by the Divine Being [which is genderless, actually] and, must keep it intact as a submission to the divine will. Just as a child doesn’t reject the gift of his/her parents, Sikhs do not reject the body that has been given to us. …

My attitude and thoughts and actions have more value in them than my body because I recognize that this body is just going to become ash in the end, so why fuss about it?

When I die, no one is going to remember what I looked like, heck, my kids will forget my voice, and slowly, all physical memory will fade away. However, my impact and legacy will remain: and, by not focusing on the physical beauty, I have time to cultivate those inner virtues and hopefully, focus my life on creating change and progress for this world in any way I can. …

I appreciate all of the comments here, both positive and less positive because I’ve gotten a better understanding of myself and others from this.”

Her dignified response made an impression on the guy who posted her pic to the siteand elicited this response from him . . .

I know that this post ISN’T a funny post but I felt the need to apologize to the Sikhs, Balpreet, and anyone else I offended when I posted that picture. Put simply it was stupid. Making fun of people is funny to some but incredibly degrading to the people you’re making fun of. It was an incredibly rude, judgmental, and ignorant thing to post. …

I’ve read more about the Sikh faith and it was actually really interesting. It makes a whole lot of sense to work on having a legacy and not worrying about what you look like. I made that post for stupid internet points and I was ignorant.

So reddit I’m sorry for being an a**hole and for giving you negative publicity. Balpreet, I’m sorry for being a closed minded individual. You are a much better person than I am Sikhs, I’m sorry for insulting your culture and way of life. Balpreet’s faith in what she believes is astounding.

To view thread on Reddit, click on http://tinyurl.com/9s8cs5b


2 Comments to “A Sikh Lady’s Response to Mockery”

  1. I had one of those moments on Twitter. A band who was big in the early 90’s came out with a new album. I tweeted, damn haven’t heard from them in a while, I wonder where they have been. To which the band replied, we made 4 more albums…I was owned.


  2. How cool are both these stories ? Balpreet is indeed and exceptional human being.


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